and i hold it dear in my heart, there is no humidity out here in southern calif
:-) (and the beaches are nicer) ... she is right tho... texas is wonderful!
Ditto! Texas IS wonderful! LOL!
That said ...
SPOILER WARNING:
I'm going to get into a bit of a sensitive subject here, regarding politics and
gun laws. I am not going to go into the Right and Wrong of these things, and I
will not respond and debate the Right and Wrong of these things. But after
thinking about my last post some more, I realized that there are two issues that
might spoil living in Texas for some people, so I thought I should address them
honestly (as I see it, that is).
You've been warned ...
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Okay, the two other things that might make *some* Californians (and others)
unhappy with living in Texas are: politics and gun laws.
Politics: If, like many Bay Area Californians, you believe that all Republicans
are intrinsically evil, then you should not move to Texas (except for maybe
Austin, which is considerably more liberal than the rest of the state). OTOH, if
you really feel that way, there are large parts of the South and Midwest that
you should not move to either. If you are more of a moderate, or if you don't
care a lot about politics, you should be fine.
Guns: Texans are not all gun-totin' nuts. Most of my friends in Texas did not
even own a gun ... but some chose to. If, for example, it would make you
horribly uncomfortable to know that your very nice, very friendly, perfectly
sane neighbor across the street owned a hunting rifle (which he kept carefully
locked up away from his children), then perhaps you should think twice about
moving to Texas. True story: I knew a Californian who had moved to Texas, though
a national social organization I belong to. He and his wife seemed pretty happy
for the first few months. Then, at a local meeting in FW, someone else mentioned
in passing that he had a concealed handgun permit, and in fact often carried a
handgun. He did not mention whether he was currently carrying, and no one asked.
The conversation moved on ... but the newbie Californian got VERY upset at this
news that it was even possible to carry a concealed weapon to a meeting, so much
so that he began a big campaign lobbying the national office to create a new
rule restricting members from carrying heat to meetings (even when it was
perfectly legal in that jurisdiction). This did not go over well, as you can
imagine. I don't know the end of the story, as we moved soon afterward ... but I
do know that the Californian was upset with his new state, and he wasn't making
many friends with that attitude.
So I will now shut up about all this. Last word: If you are thinking about
moving somewhere permanently, try to take several vacations there first, and
live like a native as much as possible. Look up meetings of the local garden
club (or whatever organizations you would be interested in) and attend them.
Drive around neighborhoods you think you would like (by yourself, not with a
realtor) and if you see someone out working in their yard, stop and (nicely)
interview them about what life is like there. Read the local paper every day you
are there. Be polite but nosy. And try to be open-minded. If things were
*exactly* the same as your original home, there wouldn't be any need to move,
would there? :)
good luck!
Ann