In a message dated 10/8/2000 6:37:50 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
tcarson@... writes:
<< Now, if someone can just do something about this
silly illness, I sure would like to get it all done! No, I don't
expect you guys to do that!
One thing that really bugs me is for relatives and
acquaintances to give broad hints about the things that need doing or
could be done.....If they only knew how much I want to do it all. No,
I can't give up on doing it myself....that's half the fun!
Hi, I am new to the group too and I feel exactly as the above writer does. I
was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, I guess the modern day Rheumatism.....anyway
guess what I did for a living, and made quite a good living doing it. Can't
guess? A professional wallpaper hanger....and you will never guess what my
husband is LOL....a general contractor...what a team heh? Well we both had
our own separate businesses, I had one full time assistant.....he usually had
two or three. But like the writer above states doing it is half the fun. We
have redone several homes ourselves and have enjoyed every minute. Now not
only did I have to give up my business, but it takes me 100 times longer to
do a project than it used to. And like Terry, I will stop calling her
"writer above", hehe.....I feel the pressure of the inlaws judging me, my own
husband even has a hard time with my low productivity....all that gets
internalized and is difficult to deal with in addition to the illness itself.
But I have to be patient with my self and not push myself, it is so
frustrating, when I used to wallpaper professionally, with my assistant, we
could do two rooms a day, no problem, including prep..... and now, including
the prep... well, the powder room I am doing right now is turning into weeks.
I have finished with the painting and hoping to start the wallpaper today. I
experimented with a faux finish on the woodwork, crown, base, chair rail,
paneled door and trim. So it was several days with many steps, and I mix my
own color, but still it is taking me forever. Then I had to mud and sand the
walls smooth.
I will continue on my next post with , this is getting long, what the
wallpaper looks like, the color of the glazes for the wood work and what I
plan to do with the ceiling. Like Terry I have all these ideas, but not the
energy or the body anymore to do them.
Kathy Mae